Wisdom Before Work

Wisdom Before Work (Oct 14, 2025)

Scripture (NIV):“If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you.” — James 1:5

ReflectionWhen I stepped into a season that combined adjunct teaching, coaching, and family commitments, the opportunities looked good, but my discernment felt thin. Emails stacked up. Invitations came from people I respect. I wanted to say yes to everything that sounded meaningful. The result was noise. My calendar was full, yet my spirit felt scattered.

James 1:5 gave me a clear path. Ask first. Receive wisdom. Then act. God gives generously and He does not shame us for needing help. I began to practice a simple order each time a decision came across my desk. First, I would pause and pray the text word for word. If any of you lacks wisdom, ask God. Second, I would write the decision in one sentence. Third, I would ask a clarifying question. Does this align with my mission to clarify vision for leaders, men, and churches so they can flourish?

That process surprised me. Some opportunities moved from pressure to peace. Other opportunities that looked impressive did not belong in this season. Wisdom did not make the choices easy, but it made them clear. I could say yes without guilt and no without apology. My energy followed my obedience.

Here is what the practice looks like now. At the start of each week, I list the big choices in front of me. I bring them into prayer before I reply to anyone. I ask for wisdom that is pure, peace-loving, considerate, and sincere. I listen for the gentle nudge toward integrity and away from image. After that, I check commitments against the limits that protect my life with Jesus and my life with my family. If a yes will crowd out Scripture, Sabbath, or presence at home, it is not a wise yes. Wisdom honors both calling and capacity.

I also invite trusted voices into the process. A quick call to a mentor or a short conversation with my wife often exposes blind spots. Wisdom grows in community. When I share the sentence that defines the decision, people who love me can tell me if I am drifting from my core assignment. Their feedback has saved me more than once.

James promises that God gives wisdom generously. I have tasted that generosity. When I ask, God answers with clarity that cuts through the noise. The work still takes effort, but I carry it with a settled mind. Wisdom before work. That is how I stay aligned with my purpose and avoid the trap of pleasing people at the expense of my soul.

Application

• What decision needs prayer for wisdom before I answer today?

• In one sentence, how does this request align with my mission?

• Who will I invite to pray and reflect with me for clarity this week?

Prayer: Jesus, I ask for wisdom. Give me clarity without shame and direction without confusion. Align my yes and my no with Your purpose for my life. Guard my pace, protect my family rhythms, and keep my heart steady in You. Let every decision honor You and serve people well. Amen.