How to Help Kids Through Racism

Micah 6:8 – “He has shown you, O mortal, what is good. And what does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God.”

When I was 10 years old, I had a friend—let’s call him David. We were inseparable that summer in the sweltering Jacksonville, Florida heat. Riding bikes, sharing snacks, cracking jokes—it was one of those simple childhood friendships.

One day I knocked on his door, expecting another day of adventure. But David didn’t open it. He just stood there behind the glass, looking sad. “Can you come out and play?” I asked. He slowly shook his head no. I pressed him. That’s when he said it: “My grandma said I can’t play with you anymore… because you’re Black.”

I remember walking away in silence. Confused. Hurt. Ashamed. What was wrong with being Black? And why did it feel like something I needed to apologize for?

I didn’t talk to anyone about it back then. I didn’t have the tools. But now, as a father and chaplain, I realize kids need help navigating these painful realities. Micah 6:8 calls us to live justly, love mercy, and walk humbly. That includes teaching kids how to process racism with truth, love, and faith.

It’s not about shielding them—it’s about equipping them. When we share our stories, give them language, and make space for their questions, we help them grow into justice-minded, grace-filled people.

Ask Yourself:

1. What conversations about race did I miss growing up?

2. How can I help children in my life name and process injustice?

3. What personal story could I share to open the door for healing?

   
   

Prayer: God of justice, thank you for giving us your example. Help us guide the next generation with courage, truth, and grace. Amen.